The Problem with Running From Problems

Not surprisingly, we face situations sooner or later that seem so overwhelming that we just either want to escape, or find someone strong enough to help us.

Then there are some who don't do either, but try to pretend the problems don't exist. It's kind of like the person I heard about who had problems with his car. To drown out the car's noise as he drove, he just turned up the radio volume louder and louder.

But I think the more you ignore problems, the greater they can grow. The results could be more life-threatening or devastating to a relationship. If you deal with the issues while they are small or manageable now, they may be solved faster.

Running from them could mean they catch up with you later, especially if you're part of the problem. Certain difficulties may also be growing opportunities. They can help one to mature, to face more difficult problems in the future. They should help one to be more patient, to be a better parent, student, employee, businessperson, or help others less fortunate.